If you've read or been involved in staff development, if it is goal setting, time management, motivation, weight loss, or classes of many others and have not taken possession of what you want, you probably you miss one inner drive towards this goal elusive.
you bring books, CDs, tapes, internet research, and perhaps even participated in seminars, but still you find that you fall short of your desire or not even come a step closer to what you set achieve. You may ask "Why I still do not? I just had to stay who I am today?"
Do not lose hope and the sight of your goal. If you've got the development of personal resources, before, you have a desire to improve. You have a desire to be in your intimate relationships. You have a desire to look their best. You have a desire to free themselves from debt.
Here's a great analogy to help you see the problem. Not to define the problem correctly is not possible to provide a correct solution, leaving you to wonder all your life about "what could be." Think you've read the books, the CDs they listen to, attend the seminars, such as a spark. This spark has the potential to extremely powerful. It has the potential to ignite the fire and create. Can you see the relationship between the spark and the resources to read and listen? These guides for development personnel, create a spark in you. Pumping up to guide you towards the correct path to your goal's.
However, it does not take long before you find yourself not moving forward on the path towards the goal, or who has moved completely off the road. You may have even lost ground by a feeling so beaten up after the failure is put into a state of depression and fear. What you need is to turn the spark acquired from Resources for personal development in a roaring fire. A fire so dominant and independent, who will continue to burn and do not require outside help to keep it that way. To see what you can feed that spark into a fire, ask yourself: "I have this inner desire to improve, where it comes from?" Are you tired of arguing with your partner or friends and you want to have more intimate relations? It's because you're tired of worrying about being able to put food on the table, provide clothing, and shelter? Are you embarrassed by how those extra pounds you see?
Now it is clear why you want to improve, make a strong fear. Using the example financial: they are struggling to create and provide the necessary. Create the fear that one day you will be able to provide, or which, for once in your life you want to write, without worrying about the financial burden. This is your fear. This is your fuel for the spark to ignite into a roaring fire and keep burning strongly.
So
the next time you feel you do not have what it takes to reach that elusive goal, I remember the fear of what might be. Pull out that fear and use it to propel you forward. By asking "what could be," prevents you saying then "what could be."
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